Text by Tony Ward, Copyright 2026
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Photos by Brian Hunt, Copyright 2026
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On the eve of the first anniversary of Chanel’s passing, a small gathering of family and friends came together at our home to honor the life of our beloved daughter. During that gathering, we buried a small portion of her remains in the Ward Memorial Garden, established in her memory. It was an intimate and deeply personal moment for our family.
Earlier, on November 1, 2025, a much larger public memorial service was held at the Quaker Meeting House in Germantown. Hundreds of people who knew and loved Chanel traveled from across the United States to pay their respects. Many stood and shared personal memories of their experiences with Chanel, spanning her early childhood, adult years, and professional life. It was a remarkable testament to the number of lives she touched.
We understand that a recording of that service was made by members of Chanel’s in-law family. Despite our numerous requests, we have been unable to obtain a copy. If anyone who attended happened to make an independent audio recording of the service, we would be extremely grateful if you would contact us.
That November 1 memorial also marked the last time I saw and held my grandson, Carmelo. What followed shortly thereafter was a family dispute that ultimately left us separated from him. Since then, our efforts to reestablish a relationship have taken us through the family court system in Philadelphia and, more recently, New York City.
This most recent memorial gathering brought those painful memories rushing back. It was a reminder not only of how much we miss Chanel, but also of how much precious time has passed in our ongoing effort to restore a loving relationship with our grandson.
Still, we forge ahead.
To everyone who continues to follow our story, share our posts, offer words of encouragement, and contribute to our GoFundMe campaign, thank you. Your generosity and support have meant more to us than words can ever adequately express. We remain committed to the hope that one day soon we will once again be part of Carmelo’s life.
With gratitude,
Tony and Sandy Ward
GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/8a04eb314